Seduction adds spice and a little romance to a man's (sometimes a bit boring) world. Be the woman who gives the gifts of pleasure, playfulness, and excitement to a man and he will be so appreciative to you!
Easy steps to be a seductress.
Things You’ll Need:
- Confidence
- Sex Appeal
- Self-Respect
- Femininity
- Love for YOU
Step1
1. Just relate.
Don't let 'commitment' be the goal of your relating.
Step2
2. Find your signature scent.
Figure out what soap, perfume, body lotion, and/or hair product combination smells uniquely YOU.
Step3
3. Be ALL woman... except for a few masculine traits.
To seduce a man:
- dress like a woman.
- Act like a woman.
- Walk like a woman (yeah girl, strut your stuff!).
- Learn how to dance... seductive dance especially.
- Have a soothing, soft, throaty tone to your voice.
Then, when you're all woman-like, play up your masculine trait(s). The art of seduction lies in someone not being able to figure you out... make him want to get to know you by showing the depth of your character.
Step4
Have your own mind and provide mental stimulation.A man may initially be attracted to a woman because of her beauty, but he wants to have someone he can talk to... someone who "gets" him. Keep your conversation interesting. Bonus points if you develop a killer sense of humor.
Step5
Flirt with him, but be subtle.If you are going to seduce a man, you need to learn how to flirt. ASAP. :) Show him that you are interested, but don't overdo it. A smile, a sidelong glance, laughing at his jokes (if they're funny), all work to let him know you're enjoying him.
Step6
After dating for a little while, let him know that you WANT him.Men want to be desired just as much as we do. If you show a man that you want him sexually, you can really drive him wild. Let him know that he turns you on and that you find him "sexy".So many women start dating a guy and after awhile use the words "cute" or "adorable" to describe him. Call him "Sexy" and watch his eyes light up. ;-)
Step7
Have fun all the time and enjoy your life!Men want to be taken away from their problems. Do not BE the problem.Be so thrilled with life that you radiate excitement and energy! You can do this by loving yourself first. Loving yourself will not only seduce a man, it will be attractive to everyone you meet! Self-love gives off a sexy vibe; so fall in love with your life first and you will be a fun woman who men want to be around.For more tips on loving YOU visit www.firstloveyou.com
Step8
When it comes to the physical, move a little slower than he wants (but do eventually give in and surrender. ;-) ) Two steps forward, one step back. Kiss him passionately and then pull back. Let him start to round the bases, then send him back to first. Seduction is all about delaying gratification. That's "delaying" gratification. Don't be a tease... eventually gratify. ;-)
Step9
Enjoy sex!Seriously, there's nothing else to say... it does a body good.
Step10
Stand up for yourself... but don't be a drama queen/whiny/preachy/nag.Men cannot stand your overflow of emotion, so don't let it get there. If he does something disrespectful, don't pout, sulk, whine, cry, call to yell at him, blah blah blah. The effect it has on him is "Ahhh, get me AWAY from this emotional situation". He will pull away from you. Instead, be cool and calm. Tell him that you won't tolerate "xyz" from anyone who wants to be in a relationship with you. State it matter-of-factly and with conviction. A woman who can hold her own, and not be an emotional wreck when she's upset, is highly attractive... Seduce a man by keeping your emotions in check.
Step11.
If you've got skills, cook for him.Mm, Mmm, MMMM, nothing can keep a man away from a strong Alpha Female who can throw down in the kitchen. Don't cook for him all the time... the novelty of it will soon wear off. Do cook for him on special occasions and/or because he's been extra nice to you. And when you cook that meal, put your heart in it... for some reason this makes your special dish that much more delicious. Send me a message here (or at info@firstloveyou.com) if you want my "Make A Man Feel Like A Man" Pot Roast recipe. :)
By FirstLoveYou http://www.ehow.com/how_2325087_man-be-sexy-alpha-female.html
